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BDSM, Bondage, Fetish, or S&M what is your kink? Are you a master, a Dom, or a subordinate slave? Whatever tickles or spanks your fancy you will find it on NZ Pleasures. We have BDSM and Fetish advertisers from all over the country including Wellington, Auckland and Christchurch.

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What is BDSM

All practices in this area of activity must be performed only if there is informed consent of all parties and the potential for risk has been discussed.

If you have played with handcuffs, blind folds, ankle cuffs, or candle wax then you have delved into BDSM, perhaps more than once. Ever seen 50 shades of grey? Well that could give you a little glimpse into a small segment of what you can cover in this practice.

BDSM often involves a variety of erotic practices and stands for Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadomasochism. We will cover a few of the subcultures below but please be aware this is by no means a comprehensive list.

Bondage
Depending on the motivation there are several different types of bondage that can occur

• Bondage for a purpose
• Decorative Bondage
• Torture Bondage
• Film Bondage
• Meditative Bondage
• Metal Bondage.

For more details on the above please see the Bondage (BDSM) section on Wikipedia.

Discipline
Discipline revolves around the rules given to the Subordinate (Sub) by the Dominate (Dom) and the punishment given if the Sub were to break those rules, however, this can also include positive reinforcement where the sub is rewarded for good behaviour. The punishment delivered can be physical, psychological or a combination of both.

• Restrictive or Denial
  • Orgasm edging
  • Chastity belts
  • Denial of orgasms for a number of days, weeks or months.

• Productive
  • Make them go out in public to pick something up wearing only a coat and nothing underneath
  • Make them serve you dinner in the nude

• Pain or Discomfort
  • Spanking
  • Caning
  • Nipple clamps
  • Ball gags

• Humiliation
  • Naked exercise
  • Act like a piece of furniture
  • Eat from a pet dish

• Boring or Mental
  • Write lines
  • Isolation

For a few more ideas see this list from Kink Closet

Dominance and submission (D/s)
This area involves the submission of one person to another via a set of behaviours, customs, and rituals. Physical contact is not even a requirement in this situation as it can be conducted over the emails, messaging, or over the phone.

For more information regarding Dom and Sub please visit this article.

Sadomasochism (S&M)
Sadomasochism is the practise of giving and receiving pain to elicit sexual gratification from their acts. Sadist refers to someone who enjoys giving pain while a masochist enjoys receiving pain.

You can access information on Sadomasochism in many places on the internet. This is one such article.

For more safety advice please visit Loving BDSM and Submissive Guide .