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Common sex industry abbreviations explained

Sex industry abbreviations can be overwhelming, so to help you find exactly what you seek, we’ve listed the common ones below:

  • 69 – Sex position in which the sexual partners lay head to toe and therefore mutually perform oral sex on each other.
  • A-levels – Anal Sex
  • AB/DL – Adult Baby/Diaper Lover
  • AMP – Asian Massage Parlour
  • BBW – Big Beautiful Woman (a woman who is plus sized)
  • BDSM – Bondage, Discipline/Domination, Submission/Sadism, Masochism
  • BFE – Boyfriend Experience
  • BLS – Balls Licking and Sucking
  • BS – Body Slide (sliding your body against another’s, with oils or lubes for instance)
  • CBJ – Covered Blow Job (blow job with a condom)
  • CBT – Cock and Ball Torture (for example, using ties, cages, weights or other torturing items)
  • CD – Cross Dressing (in other words, when a person dresses up in clothing of the opposite sex)
  • COB / Pearl necklace – Cum On Breasts/Cum on Body (in addition to other areas such as cum on feet)
  • COF – Cum On Face
  • DATY – Dining At The ‘Y’ (oral sex on a vagina; cunnilingus)
  • DDLG – Daddy Dom Little Girl (the male is the dominant figure while the female plays a young girl)
  • DDP – Double Digit Penetration (two fingers)
  • DFK – Deep French Kissing (passionate kissing with tongues)
  • DILF – Father I’d Like to Fuck (a sexually appealing older man)
  • DP – Double Penetration
  • D/s – Dominance and Submission
  • DT – Deep Throat
  • FBSM – Full Body Sensual Massage
  • FIV – Fingers in vagina
  • FK – French Kissing (open mouthed kissing)

More abbreviations

  • FS – Full Service (a service which is just sex or may include massage, oral and sex)
  • FSSW – Full Service Sex Worker
  • GFE – Girlfriend Experience (a service which can be characterized as sensual, friendly, cuddly, chatty or more girlfriend like)
  • Greek – Anal Sex
  • GS – Golden Shower (urinating on body)
  • HH – Half Hour
  • HJ – Hand Job
  • MFF – Male Female Female (threesome involving one male and two females)
  • MFM – Male Female Male (similarly, a threesome involving two males and one female)
  • MILF – Mother I’d Like to Fuck (a sexually appealing older woman)
  • MSOG – Multiple Shots On Goal – (multiple organisms/have sex multiple times)
  • OTK – Over the Knee (spanking)
  • PIV – Penis in Vagina
  • Post Op – After sex reassignment surgery
  • Pre-Op – Before sex reassignment surgery
  • PSE – Porn Star Experience (a service which is more full on, raunchy, may include costumes or props for instance)
  • RACK – Risk Aware Consensual Kink
  • R&T – Rub and Tug (massage with hand relief)
  • Russian (often interchangeable with Spanish) – Sex between the breasts or rubbing the penis between the breasts.
  • SM – Sensual Massage
  • SP/SW – Service Provider/Sex Worker
  • SSBBW – Super Sized Big Beautiful Woman (a woman who is extra plus sized)
  • Spanish (often interchangeable with Russian) – Sex between the breasts or rubbing the penis between the breasts.
  • T/TG/TS/TV – Trans/Transgender/Transsexual/Transvestite
  • YMMV – Your Mileage May Vary (in other words, not everyone’s experience will be the same)

Banned Sex Industry Abbreviations

Sex Industry Abbreviations that are banned from NZ Pleasures as per Section 9 of the New Zealand PRA 2003 include the following:

  • BBBJ – Bare Back Blow Job (oral sex on a penis without a condom)
  • BBFS – Bare Back Full Service (sex without a condom)
  • CIM – Cum in Mouth (ejaculation into someone’s mouth)
  • CIMWS – Cum in Mouth with Swallow (ejaculating into someone’s mouth and in addition they swallow it)
  • Natural/Raw – Oral Sex or Sex without a Condom (a blowjob or sex without a condom)
  • NBJ – Natural Blow Job (in other words, a blowjob without a condom)
  • OWO – Oral Without (a blowjob without a condom)