Common sex industry abbreviations explained
Sex industry abbreviations can be overwhelming, so to help you find exactly what you seek, we’ve listed the common ones below:
- 69 – Sex position in which the sexual partners lay head to toe and therefore mutually perform oral sex on each other.
- A-levels – Anal Sex
- AB/DL – Adult Baby/Diaper Lover
- AMP – Asian Massage Parlour
- BBW – Big Beautiful Woman (a woman who is plus sized)
- BDSM – Bondage, Discipline/Domination, Submission/Sadism, Masochism
- BFE – Boyfriend Experience
- BLS – Balls Licking and Sucking
- BS – Body Slide (sliding your body against another’s, with oils or lubes for instance)
- CBJ – Covered Blow Job (blow job with a condom)
- CBT – Cock and Ball Torture (for example, using ties, cages, weights or other torturing items)
- CD – Cross Dressing (in other words, when a person dresses up in clothing of the opposite sex)
- COB / Pearl necklace – Cum On Breasts/Cum on Body (in addition to other areas such as cum on feet)
- COF – Cum On Face
- DATY – Dining At The ‘Y’ (oral sex on a vagina; cunnilingus)
- DDLG – Daddy Dom Little Girl (the male is the dominant figure while the female plays a young girl)
- DDP – Double Digit Penetration (two fingers)
- DFK – Deep French Kissing (passionate kissing with tongues)
- DILF – Father I’d Like to Fuck (a sexually appealing older man)
- DP – Double Penetration
- D/s – Dominance and Submission
- DT – Deep Throat
- FBSM – Full Body Sensual Massage
- FIV – Fingers in vagina
- FK – French Kissing (open mouthed kissing)
More abbreviations
- FS – Full Service (a service which is just sex or may include massage, oral and sex)
- FSSW – Full Service Sex Worker
- GFE – Girlfriend Experience (a service which can be characterized as sensual, friendly, cuddly, chatty or more girlfriend like)
- Greek – Anal Sex
- GS – Golden Shower (urinating on body)
- HH – Half Hour
- HJ – Hand Job
- MFF – Male Female Female (threesome involving one male and two females)
- MFM – Male Female Male (similarly, a threesome involving two males and one female)
- MILF – Mother I’d Like to Fuck (a sexually appealing older woman)
- MSOG – Multiple Shots On Goal – (multiple organisms/have sex multiple times)
- OTK – Over the Knee (spanking)
- PIV – Penis in Vagina
- Post Op – After sex reassignment surgery
- Pre-Op – Before sex reassignment surgery
- PSE – Porn Star Experience (a service which is more full on, raunchy, may include costumes or props for instance)
- RACK – Risk Aware Consensual Kink
- R&T – Rub and Tug (massage with hand relief)
- Russian (often interchangeable with Spanish) – Sex between the breasts or rubbing the penis between the breasts.
- SM – Sensual Massage
- SP/SW – Service Provider/Sex Worker
- SSBBW – Super Sized Big Beautiful Woman (a woman who is extra plus sized)
- Spanish (often interchangeable with Russian) – Sex between the breasts or rubbing the penis between the breasts.
- T/TG/TS/TV – Trans/Transgender/Transsexual/Transvestite
- YMMV – Your Mileage May Vary (in other words, not everyone’s experience will be the same)
Banned Sex Industry Abbreviations
Sex Industry Abbreviations that are banned from NZ Pleasures as per Section 9 of the New Zealand PRA 2003 include the following:
- BBBJ – Bare Back Blow Job (oral sex on a penis without a condom)
- BBFS – Bare Back Full Service (sex without a condom)
- CIM – Cum in Mouth (ejaculation into someone’s mouth)
- CIMWS – Cum in Mouth with Swallow (ejaculating into someone’s mouth and in addition they swallow it)
- Natural/Raw – Oral Sex or Sex without a Condom (a blowjob or sex without a condom)
- NBJ – Natural Blow Job (in other words, a blowjob without a condom)
- OWO – Oral Without (a blowjob without a condom)